A similar work but not together, how to work seoorang BOS andLeader?
1.Seorang BOS creates fear in his subordinates.
A LEADER build trust.
2. A BOS says "I".
A LEADER say "we"
3. A BOS know how the job should be done.
A LEADER know how a career should be forged.
4. A BOS rely on power.
A LEADER rely on cooperation.
5. A BOS driving.
A LEADER leads.
6. A BOS blame.
A LEADER resolve problems and correct errors.
7. A BOS controls 10% of workforce problems.
A LEADER control 90% of cooperative labor.
8. A BOS causing growing resentment.
Leaders foster a growing enthusiasm.
9. A BOS causing drudgery.
A LEADER cause the work fun / interesting.
10. BOS A look at the problem as a calamity that would destroythe company.
A LEADER see problems as opportunities to overcome cohesivestaff, and turned into growth.
11. A BOS said, "Go!"
A LEADER said, "Let's Go!"
Well, if one day you're lucky enough to be in a situation like that,which one would you choose, want to be a BOS or a Leader?The choice is yours. . .
sources:
haxims.blogspot.com
According to the results of a survey on Wednesday was a daywhen we ourselves are achieving the best behavior in healthcare for themselves.
The survey involving 5000 volunteers from a health supplementscompany Bio-GLAN found that on Wednesday, we will tend toavoid or reduce the bad habits that carry over from the weekend.
Wednesday is also the day when we are most likely to get 8hours of sleep and meals with servings of fruits and vegetablesare balanced.
Then, one of the five people listed would be more likely to cometo the gym and three-quarters of volunteers will tend to avoidalcohol. Inevitably, that day finally get the nickname 'WednesdayHealthy'.
"On Wednesday, we'll feel more in control of our lives," saidresearcher Dr Vicky Senior, a psychologist at the University ofSurrey Health, as quoted by the Daily Express quoted.
sources:
mediaindonesia.com
History records many people who risked themselves to prove something they believe.
What history does not tell us is that there are some people who risked their lives trying to prove something that just does not matter to anyone except for themselves.
1. Franz Reichelt (1912)
A tailor from France, he tried to prove that by using artificial dress himself, everyone can jump safely from any height.
Then he sought the high ground to prove it. Since that time Eiffel tower is where the most high, so he memtuskan to jump from there.
But unfortunately, what he thought would be the greatest trial, it makes him a successful hit the ground and died instantly.
2. Mitsugoro Bando VIII (1975)
A kabuki actor famous in Japan in 1975. At that time he and his friend stopped at a restaurant to order four servings of fugu liver of fish. He wanted to prove that he can eat fish and stay alive.
Fugu fish including the most toxic food if presented haphazardly.Let alone four, eat one serving alone can make you die of poisoning.
After 7 hours, Mitsugoro found dead, according to data forensics, Mitsugoro remain conscious even in a state of dying when the poisoning, he was completely paralyzed until eventually die a slow death due to suffocation.
3. Garry Hoy (1993)
A famous lawyer in Canada. He has an office on the top floor of a building. Now that he wants to prove is that the glass in his office was broken, although beaten by anti-anything.
He also tried to run his first attempt hit the glass. The result, glass is not broken! But whatever was her mind. He was just so thrilled to break the glass.
After a few steps backwards, Garry and ran at full speed and prankk?!! Glass is finally broken! Garry was proud to prove it was klo glass may break.
But unfortunately he soon realized that just made klo success he is now in free fall down and eventually died.
4. Jeff Dailey and Peter Burkowski (1981)
Two chum is manic arcade game Berzerk. Berzek is a game arcade or the more we know called this dindong sempet be hit Ditahun 1980s. Jeff and Peter are competing to achieve the highest score until the end. . . .
Jeff was found dead of a heart attack after getting the highest score of 16,660. Peter was not aware if the body in a weakened state, video games can be very extreme, and the heart attack that killed Jeff's one of the proofs.
After 2 years later Peter beat Jeff's score, but the effects are fatal.Because fatigue Peter had a heart attack, just like what had happened to Jeff. And she died.
5. Jennifer Strange (2007)
In 2007, a radio station in California KDND 107.9 held a contest called "Hold Your Wee For a Wii".
So the basic principle, you have to hold pee / urine as long as possible after drinking several bottles of water. And as a reward is none other than Nintendo's Wii console. Toys are again becoming a trend at that time.
This contest attracted the attention of Jennifer, let alone as a mother who has a child. He hopes, if he wins it could be Nintendo's best gift for his son. He had followed the contest, but what happened?
Jennifer died of what is called the 'Water Intoxication' or water intoxication. So, because too much water going into the body of an acute electrolyte imbalance in the brain.
And in the end Jennifer did not win the contest, and all parties involved in the radio from the beginning, it was also immediately fired.
6. Christopher McCandless (1992)
For those of you who have ever watched the movie "Into The Wild" knows the story. There are some people who have the motivation to live in the wild, far from civilization. And Chris is one person.
Actually he's a smart and even then he dapet fellowships to tens of thousands of dollars, but who knows what there minds at the time, he decided to discard it and start living a new life in the wild without the help of anyone. Leaving education, friends and even his own family.
Trying something is permissible, but without good preparation it could be a disaster. This is what happened with Chris, because he had no experience at all and also the lack of equipment that brought him slowly pressed and began to starve.
After nearly 4 months to survive by eating only the seeds of the plant, Chris had finally died of starvation. Two weeks after that his body was found wrapped in blankets to sleep by 2 hunters who happened to pass by.
Sources:
sourceflame.blogspot.com
Decide on a love affair, both of which already existed for years or just a few days, it is not easy. Although you do not want to hurt her, but if anything it looks like you've passed on can not afford anymore.
So what then? And you also do not want him to hurt her. But whose name is broken up, there's nothing not painful is not it? All you can do is make it less 'civilized'. The trick? Do a few things below:
1. Make preparations
Deciding relationship is certainly not a sudden decision, so take the time to prepare your decision is. Because the better your preparation, the less likely you are affected emotionally. Parties decided, would be sad and will most likely cry.Prepare also terse response and acceptable by him, when he asked the reason.
2. Make it the first to know
Usually before making this decision, you will ask and ask for consideration of the closest friends. But that does not mean they have to notify your spouse. Respect your partner and say your decision, before someone else told him.
3. Face to face is the best
It is easier to say good bye over the phone, email or SMS. But you definitely know how it will impress you coward, especially for your partner. And usually, will not be easy for couples to create friendships or opportunities, if it turns out you change your mind. To avoid karma, for example diputusin boyfriend through Friendster or Facebook, you should respect your partner with the state face to face.
4. Find the best timing
Disconnected, it can take a right. Do not say goodbye when you are both celebrating birthdays, anniversaries or events that should be fun. Best day to say the word break is Friday, because today is the last day of work. So, he could 'eliminate the self' in the Saturday and Sunday to cool off from the world 'outside'.
5. Find the exact location
Another important thing to think about, is to choose the right place to say the word 'broken'. Find a neutral location without an atmosphere that has sentimental value for both of you, as well as a favorable place to avoid the curious stares of others.For example in a restaurant that was not too crowded, so if there is a cry that came out, you will not feel ashamed. The location was somewhat remote and quiet, for example at the mall or park, in the hours which of course was not too crowded.
6. Choose the right words as I said
To avoid the wrong impression, thinking and your decision to say it clearly, honestly and simply. Tell how your pain in making this decision, let him know if you too are suffering and if you did not issue a decision. Without blaming her, let her know what problems you're experiencing and saying that this is probably the best decision for both of you. It is not wrong when you have hope in a relationship, but ties the two hearts will not work when it is no longer tied with love. Avoid lying to avoid feeling hurt, by contrast, say honestly with the sentences in the grammar carefully. Consider carefully your every word, because on other occasions you might see him again.
7. Let him master the situation
When disconnected, the different reactions, from laughter to tears, others accept it with a serious face or the like can not believe it. Give him time to understand the situation, then let him express his feelings (if he wants). Although he understands what you mean, sometimes he hopes you change your mind and gives an opportunity to improve the situation. Answer if you have thought carefully and the decision was unanimous. It would be far better, than let the unpleasant relations continuously. If necessary, let him decide when the conversation is considered complete.
8. A day after word broke
Your ex-boyfriend will try to convince you to come back together over the next few days. If there is any good or that must be completed, finish as soon as possible and avoid returning to a situation like you two are still together.
